I totally agree, which is why I specified that it's the attitudes which do the harm. It is fair to point out that one person is making the rest of us feel bad, because I doubt they realise it, and it is a very real thing. One individual's words making a whole bunch of others feel bad is the last thing this world needs right now. A sub forum like this should be a fun safe harbour away from that kind of conflict. We should be able to discuss something relevant to our niche hobby without snide TLDRs implying that we're all fools, repetitively calling people envious and making up weird deluded narratives about the lives of other members. I mean, what the???? really??